How to Use Gender-Neutral Terms When Unsure of Someone's Gender

Learn how to respectfully refer to someone whose gender you don't know using gender-neutral language.

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When referring to someone whose gender you don't know, use gender-neutral terms like 'they,' 'their,' or 'the person.' For example, instead of 'he' or 'she,' say 'they went to the store.' This ensures respect and inclusivity.

FAQs & Answers

  1. What are examples of gender-neutral terms? Examples include 'they,' 'them,' 'their,' and terms like 'person' or 'individual.'
  2. Why is gender-neutral language important? It promotes inclusivity and respect, making everyone feel acknowledged regardless of gender identity.
  3. How can I ask someone their pronouns? You can politely ask, 'What pronouns do you prefer?' or share your own first as a way to open the conversation.
  4. Can I use 'he or she' instead of gender-neutral terms? While it can be inclusive, using 'they' is preferred as it covers all identities without assumptions.