Why Do Narcissists Obsess Over Their Lost Love?

Explore how narcissists' fixation on the 'one that got away' reflects their need for validation and control. Understanding this can help set boundaries.

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Narcissists often have difficulty letting go of the 'one that got away' as it can bruise their ego. They may obsess over it not out of genuine affection, but out of a need for validation and control. This obsession serves to reinforce their self-importance. Understanding this can help maintain healthy boundaries and move forward.

FAQs & Answers

  1. What is the psychological reason behind a narcissist's obsession with an ex? Narcissists often obsess over unresolved relationships due to their fragile ego and need for validation, not out of true affection.
  2. How can I recognize if someone is a narcissist? Signs of narcissism include a lack of empathy, excessive need for admiration, and a pattern of manipulating others for personal gain.
  3. What are the effects of a relationship with a narcissist? Being in a relationship with a narcissist can lead to emotional distress, feelings of worthlessness, and difficulty in maintaining healthy boundaries.

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