How to Message a Guy First: Effective Openers

Discover the best ways to start a conversation with a guy using fun, open-ended questions that spark interest!

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Start with a light, open-ended question to make the conversation flow naturally. For example, 'Hey [Name], I noticed you like hiking! What's your favorite trail?' This approach shows your interest in their hobbies and encourages them to share more about themselves.

FAQs & Answers

  1. What should I avoid saying in a first message? Avoid overly complicated questions and negative comments. Keep it light and engaging!
  2. How can I show genuine interest in my first message? Mention specifics about his interests, such as hobbies or favorite activities, to show you’re paying attention.
  3. What are some good examples of first messages? You can ask about a shared interest, like, 'Hey, I saw you love hiking! What's the best trail you've been on?'
  4. How long should a first message be? Keep it concise but engaging—aim for 1-2 sentences to start, leaving room for him to respond.

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