How to DM a Guy on Instagram: Tips for Your First Message
Learn effective tips on how to DM a guy on Instagram for the first time and spark meaningful conversations.
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Start with a genuine compliment or shared interest. Keep it light and simple. For example, mention a post you liked or a common hobby. Be yourself and avoid coming on too strong. A good first message could be: 'Hey, I noticed you also love hiking! What's your favorite trail?' This approach shows interest and opens the door for further conversation.
FAQs & Answers
- What should I say in my first Instagram DM? Start with a compliment or reference a shared interest to break the ice.
- How can I make my first message memorable? Mention something specific about their profile or interests to show genuine interest.
- What if he doesn't reply to my DM? Don’t take it personally; not everyone checks their DMs regularly. Give it time or try engaging through likes or comments first.
- How can I avoid coming on too strong in my message? Keep your message light and friendly, and show interest without being overly intense.